PREMARITAL SEX. LET'S TALK ABOUT IT.

Hello Unique Ones.
Today,  i will be sharing with us a very important and unique topic which i think has been neglected in recent times. Premarital Sex. Not everyone wants to talk about it. It's hardly even a word anymore. For some, they reason there is nothing to talk about. It's just part of normal life and there's nothing wrong with it so what's there to discuss? For yet another group of people, it's an uncomfortable topic and should be avoided. Then there are some who don't mind talking about it. In fact they condemn it and are quick to judge those who engage or have engaged in this behavior in the past. You may belong to anyone of the three groups described or not but one thing is for sure, the title caught your attention and you probably wanted to hear what someone had to say about it right? Perhaps the picture at the beginning of the page drew you in like a magnet and you had to read. It's okay. I can understand as I'm human too.

Let's talk sex before marriage.

That's what premarital sex means for the most part. I'm sure you didn't stop by to read mumbo-jumbo so I'll give it to you straight. This is not for everyone. It's for women who desire to have a long-term loving relationship with their spouse someday. Women who want a deep level of intimacy. Who desire to be loved and cherished.If this describes you, then get a glass of water or your favorite beverage, make yourself comfortable and let's talk.

What did you hear about Premarital Sex?

11 LIES GUYS TELL TO HAVE SEX. (BE SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID).

11 Lies Guys tell Girls to have Sex

1. THE ‘TRUE LOVE’ APPROACH: ‘If you love me, you will let me.’
2.THE LOGICAL APPROACH: ‘I thought we are going to get married’
3.THE BIG SHOT APPROACH: ‘Girls are standing by in line to date me.You are a lucky person, you know’
4.THE SITUATIONAL APPROACH: ‘Everybody is doing it’. ‘Times have changed’
5.THE THREAT APPROACH: ‘If you don’t, I will date some else’
6.THE PROMISE, PROMISE APPROACH: ‘You will not get pregnant.Even if you do, I promise to care for you.We will get married’
7.THE GUILT APPROACH: ‘I am so tensed up I can’t stand it! You led me on. You can’t stop now. I have got to have it!”
8.THE FLATTERY APPROACH: ‘You have such a gorgeous body that I can hardly control myself!’
9.THE ABNORMAL APPROACH: ‘What is the matter with you?Are you frigid or something?’
10.THE SYMPATHY APPROACH: ‘Nobody but you understands me.Everybody is against me.All i need is you to help me, and everything will be ok’ or ‘You poor little girl. Nobody has loved you as I do. Let me show you real love, right now, at the back seat of this car’
11.THE INTELLECTUAL APPROACH: He is an excellent conversationalist who can wow you with phrases and ideas. Here the guy promotes heavy ‘think’ sessions regarding sex. He doesn’t ‘do’ anything at first – just get you in the habit of verbalizing sex.
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?…NOW YOU KNOW…BE SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID

THE CONSEQUENCES OF SEXUAL SIN

Consequences of Sexual Sin 

Sexual sin produces consequences that will affect us deeply.  Viewing porn is a form of sex sin committed through lust and idolatry (see How Porn Works).  If you are looking at pornography, you are susceptible to the same consequences that result from other forms of sexual sin.  The consequences may not be easily absolved, but God will forgive you of your sin through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.  
Whether you have already sinned, or are thinking about doing so, the point here is to encourage you not to sin.  Here are some examples of the consequences of sex sin:
Sex sin defiles your body and damages its ability to fulfill God's purposes.  Sex sin is unique in that we commit it against our own bodies (1 Corinthians 6:17).  Our bodies function as temples of God's Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:12-20).   When we use our body for sex sin, we dishonor our body and defile God's temple.   We're also defiling the people that we are sinning with.   Our lack of respect for the body (and for God) damages our relationship with God.    

SOUL DEEP. (Pls Read this Story)

An Excerpt...
Soul Deep.(The dynamics of Sex)
‘Mom, are you saying that sex is bad?’ Rita
asked.
Her mom was silent. She had a far away
look in her eyes, something Rita had never
seen before.
The noise of the crickets filtered into the
room. Night birds shrieked at each other
with playful delight as they scampered in
the remaining portion of forest that
civilization had not encroached on.
‘Ada,’ her mom paused. When she wanted
to tell her something very important, she
called her by her native name.
‘Yes, mom?’

SEX MATTERS!..

"Is sex a sin?"

Answer: In the proper setting, sex is not a sin. In fact, sex is God’s idea. In Matthew 19:4-6, Jesus states with godly authority, “At the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” The creation account is thus the foundation for the institution of marriage, which was validated by the Creator Himself and established to be a lifelong union between one man and woman.