1. THE ‘TRUE LOVE’ APPROACH: ‘If you love me, you will let me.’
2.THE LOGICAL APPROACH: ‘I thought we are going to get married’
3.THE BIG SHOT APPROACH: ‘Girls are standing by in line to date
me.You are a lucky person, you know’
4.THE SITUATIONAL APPROACH: ‘Everybody is doing it’. ‘Times have changed’
5.THE THREAT APPROACH: ‘If you don’t, I will date some else’
6.THE PROMISE, PROMISE APPROACH: ‘You will not get
pregnant.Even if you do, I promise to care for
you.We will get married’
7.THE GUILT APPROACH: ‘I am so tensed up I can’t stand it! You led me on. You can’t stop now. I have got to have it!”
8.THE FLATTERY APPROACH: ‘You have such a gorgeous body that I can hardly control myself!’
9.THE ABNORMAL APPROACH: ‘What is the matter with you?Are you frigid or something?’
10.THE SYMPATHY APPROACH: ‘Nobody but you understands me.Everybody is against
me.All
i need is you to help me, and everything will be ok’ or ‘You poor
little girl. Nobody has loved you as I do. Let me show you real love,
right now, at the back seat of this car’
11.THE INTELLECTUAL APPROACH: He is an excellent conversationalist
who can wow you with phrases and ideas. Here the guy promotes heavy
‘think’ sessions regarding sex. He doesn’t ‘do’ anything at first – just
get you in the habit of verbalizing sex.
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?…NOW YOU KNOW…BE SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID
