RELATIONSHIP AND INFLUENCE.

RELATIONSHIP AND INFLUENCE

The whole essence of relationship is influence. Prov.13:20

Who you walk with will determine who you live like.

Who you look at determines who you look like.

Relationship inspires and motivates action.

Consciously or unconsciously we aspire to fall in line with and flow along with the relationship we keep.

Relationship sets standard for us to follow.

Therefore, mind the kind of relationship you keep.

Choose your relationship in line with your vision and goals for life.

Choose who to follow

Choose who to walk with

Mind where you stand, sit and walk because these will determine where you will end.

11 LIES GUYS TELL TO HAVE SEX. (BE SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID).

11 Lies Guys tell Girls to have Sex

1. THE ‘TRUE LOVE’ APPROACH: ‘If you love me, you will let me.’
2.THE LOGICAL APPROACH: ‘I thought we are going to get married’
3.THE BIG SHOT APPROACH: ‘Girls are standing by in line to date me.You are a lucky person, you know’
4.THE SITUATIONAL APPROACH: ‘Everybody is doing it’. ‘Times have changed’
5.THE THREAT APPROACH: ‘If you don’t, I will date some else’
6.THE PROMISE, PROMISE APPROACH: ‘You will not get pregnant.Even if you do, I promise to care for you.We will get married’
7.THE GUILT APPROACH: ‘I am so tensed up I can’t stand it! You led me on. You can’t stop now. I have got to have it!”
8.THE FLATTERY APPROACH: ‘You have such a gorgeous body that I can hardly control myself!’
9.THE ABNORMAL APPROACH: ‘What is the matter with you?Are you frigid or something?’
10.THE SYMPATHY APPROACH: ‘Nobody but you understands me.Everybody is against me.All i need is you to help me, and everything will be ok’ or ‘You poor little girl. Nobody has loved you as I do. Let me show you real love, right now, at the back seat of this car’
11.THE INTELLECTUAL APPROACH: He is an excellent conversationalist who can wow you with phrases and ideas. Here the guy promotes heavy ‘think’ sessions regarding sex. He doesn’t ‘do’ anything at first – just get you in the habit of verbalizing sex.
SOUNDS FAMILIAR?…NOW YOU KNOW…BE SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID

DO'S AND DONT'S OF A RELATIONSHIP

1).Who you think you are is important. Like attracts like. Do you like who you are?

2). Who you want in a relationship is important and when you are willing to ask for it, you will be able to create it. But only ask for what you want when you are clear about what it is, until then, don’t go around demanding things you think you should have.

3). We get exactly what we focus on the problem or the solution. We make a choice between them with every decision we make.

4).Tell yourself the truth about what you want not what others (family, friends, spouse) say you should have.

5). Tell everyone else your truths about what you want, don’t be afraid to share your vision and dreams with those you love.

6). You are not defined by your relationships unless you choose to be. Consider what it says about you if you deed over your soul to one.

7). Interdependent (two depending people) relationships are the only ones that work, long term.

8). Truth is the first thing necessary to create trust in our relationships. Respect is earned from trust, and love is earned from respect. Intimacy is the gift we get when we risk telling the truth.

9). Fear of intimacy is fear of the truth. Your truth is better for you than someone else just get to know what it is, so you can finally own it and speak it.

WHAT SHOULD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP BE ABOUT? (TALK)

Today, i will be sharing with you one of our inspiring and motivating talk shows about relationships.
enjoy this.
Talk
 (What should a good relationship be about?)
Talk Introduction
Today we are going to be talking about relationships and asking the question: "What should a good relationship be about?"
When I say relationship, what do you think I mean?
Girlfriend / boyfriend
Parents etc.
Friends
I know that in my mind when somebody says "relationship" I think "girlfriend", but of course relationships include our friends, family etc.
Today we are going to focus more on the girlfriend / boyfriend thing but we are also going to think a little about relationships in general